Izzy Kalman Quotes
The problem is the victim mentality, the flip- and often-overlooked side of bullying. Most bullying programs unwittingly encourage this victim mentality. 
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There is nothing moral about punishing somebody for insulting somebody else. It's the victim who allows herself to feel insulted.
- Izzy Kalman
People have a knee-jerk reaction when they hear that. They say I'm blaming the victims. I'm not blaming the victims, but I am saying that they are the ones who have the problem. Bullies don't have the problem. They aren't the ones committing suicide and shooting up schools. Those are the victims, and those are the ones whose behavior we need to change.
- Izzy Kalman